Work Rule from Buffett & Munger: Surround Yourself with People Who Raise Your Game

Byline: For the Work community — a long read on a deceptively simple career rule and how to use it today.

Warren Buffett’s blunt career counsel — “Hang out with people better than you” — reads like a practical manifesto for anyone who wants to accelerate a career without shortcuts. Charlie Munger, his long-time partner, echoes the sentiment in a steadier, sharper key: if you want to grow, don’t remain the smartest person in the room. The line is short and plain, but the implications are wide. It reshapes hiring, promotion, relocation, and daily choices about who you work beside and what you read. It reframes ambition as a social decision: the people around you are the scaffolding that shapes what you can learn, who you can become, and how quickly you can get there.

Why a social rule matters as much as skill

Technical skills and grit matter. But learning and performance are social phenomena. Productivity, norms, expectations, and the ways people solve problems are contagious. When you put yourself in the presence of high-performing peers, you borrow their standards, take part in better conversations, and are pushed into a different set of behavioral defaults.

There are several mechanisms at work:

  • Skill contagion: High performers model methods, shortcuts, and heuristics you won’t discover on your own.
  • Ratcheting norms: When excellence is the baseline, your tolerance for mediocrity drops naturally.
  • Opportunity leverage: Better peers create better projects, which in turn generate more visible outcomes.
  • Faster feedback loops: Constructive critique from capable colleagues accelerates improvement.

What “hang out” actually means at work

Buffett’s phrasing is casual but the practice is deliberate. Hanging out with people who are stronger than you is not about social climbing or mimicry. It’s about choosing environments and relationships that stretch your capacities.

Concrete forms this can take today:

  1. Joining teams where the bar is higher than your current level.
  2. Choosing managers who challenge your assumptions and push you into unfamiliar problems.
  3. Partnering on projects with peers who have complementary expertise you want to internalize.
  4. Spending discretionary time in communities — inside or outside work — where tough questions are the norm.

A practical playbook for young professionals

Here’s a step-by-step practical guide to implement this rule without becoming transactional or intolerant.

1. Map your current orbit

Make a list of the people you work with daily, weekly, and occasionally. Note where you see growth, and where you feel stagnant. The honest map often reveals that your most influential circle is narrower than you thought.

2. Define the attributes of ‘better’ for you

Better doesn’t only mean smarter. It can mean more disciplined, more experienced, faster iterators, better communicators, or people with networks you want to access. Be specific — it helps you choose where to invest limited time.

3. Make strategic proximity moves

Proximity matters: sit next to people you can learn from, sign up for cross-functional projects, and accept lateral moves that increase your exposure to higher performers. Sometimes the fastest route up is sideways.

4. Practice value-first engagement

High-performing peers are busy. Don’t expect instant mentorship; instead, offer value before asking for help. Contribute thoughtful work, ask sharp questions, and be reliably useful — the relationship deepens faster when reciprocity is visible.

5. Embrace discomfort

You’ll feel outpaced, criticized, and occasionally embarrassed. Those are healthy inputs. The emotional price of short-lived discomfort is usually far lower than the long-term cost of complacency.

6. Protect against two common pitfalls

First, beware the high-performer who is toxic — influence matters, but so do values. If the ‘better’ people normalize unethical shortcuts, walk the other way. Second, don’t confuse copying style for learning substance. Adopt methods and standards, not mere affect.

Real choices that change trajectories

Here are real, often underappreciated career choices where this rule pays off:

  • Where you pick your first company: A place with steep learning curves and smarter teammates often beats a higher salary at a comfortable shop.
  • Who you report to: Management matters. A demanding, thoughtful manager is an education you can’t buy.
  • Which peer groups you prioritize: The people who test you daily determine the kind of problems you solve and the standards you adopt.
  • When you say yes to projects: Say yes to exposure, even when you’re not fully ready. The stretch is where learning accelerates.

Examples of small moves with big returns

These are practical, low-friction ways to calibrate your environment:

  • Attend one brown-bag a week hosted by a senior colleague whose work you admire.
  • Volunteer for a cross-team initiative and use it to work closely with someone two levels above you.
  • Swap code reviews, pitch critiques, or design walkthroughs with a peer who will tell you what you need to hear.
  • Spend 20 minutes a day studying the work of a high performer within your company or field — then try to emulate a tiny habit they use.

Remote work and the new geography of ‘better’

Remote work has made finding better peers easier in some ways and harder in others. Digital communities, distributed teams, and asynchronous learning create new avenues to be near excellence. But proximity still matters: the strongest accelerators are relationships that include real-time collaboration and candid feedback. If you work remotely, prioritize regular video collaboration, live pairing sessions, and synchronous critique cycles.

Measuring the effect

Progress is messy, but you can track whether your social choices are paying off:

  • Are you learning new skills faster than before?
  • Are you getting tougher, more specific feedback?
  • Are opportunities — stretch roles, referrals, visible projects — coming more often?
  • Are your outcomes improving relative to peers you compared yourself to a year ago?

A final, clarifying principle

Buffett’s rule is not just tactical; it’s ethical and long-term. Surrounding yourself with people who are better forces humility. It keeps you honest about what you don’t know, and it curbs the arrogance that stunts growth. It’s also a stewardship test: when you become the better person in a room, the rule asks you to raise the next generation.

In the end, work is a networked climb. The view from higher up is less about ego and more about the company you kept along the way. Choose that company deliberately.

Quote to carry forward: “Hang out with people better than you,” and let your environment turn ambition into ability.